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but she was very close to George Haldeman, who was almost exactly
the same age; he is the unnamed playmate in the first chapter of
Twenty Years at HuTHouse. When they grew up, he wanted to marry
her, and Anna Haldeman encouraged the match as strongly as she had
discouraged that between Alice and Harry. George enrolled as a medical student at the Johns Hopkins University hut succumbed to a severe
mental illness from which he never recovered. Anna Addams in certain moods attributed his collapse to Janes rejection of him. Jane
Addamss older brother, James Weber Addams, also went mad, and for
years Jane devoted time and money to looking after his business and
his family.
The pathology of the Addams/Haldeman family was perhaps not so
unusual in the late nineteenth century as it would he today. But the
family's various woes presented a strong claim upon an unmarried
daughter fo move into the role of a maiden aunt selflessly ministering
to her family's needs. Jane Addams firmly rejected this role, while generously giving help when it was needed. But the complexities of the
family perhaps illuminate, more than she is willing to say, her view of
Hull-House, which she organized in some ways as a sort of alternative
family.
The years of schoolgirl idealism at Rockford Female Seminary, later
Rockford College, described in chapter 3 of Twenty Years at Hull- House, were followed by a prolonged personal crisis which she alludesto only elliptically and enigmatically. She completed her work at
Rockford in the spring of 1881 and intended to enroll at Smith College in the fall. She almost immediately collapsed with a number of
rather vaguely defined mental and physical ills, including depression
and severe hack pains. Her distress was increased when President
James Garfield was assassinated on July 2 hy Charles Julius Guiteau,
the stepbrother of Flora Guiteau, Jane's closest friend at home. Much
of the summer was spent in trying to help and comfort Flora. And
then in August she was struck the blow of the sudden death of her
father from a ruptured appendix. Addams refused to succumb to her
grief but instead traveled to Philadelphia, where she enrolled in the
Women's Medical College. A few months later, she again collapsed
and had to withdraw. She first took a course of treatment at the Hospital of Orthopedic and Nervous Diseases operated hy the brilliant and
controversial Dr. S. Weir Mitchell and then traveled to Iowa, where